Responsiblity

Instead of blaming others for disappointments and pain, look into your expectations. The key is not to stop expecting, but to stop expecting from others. Forget about being unfair to them- you are being unfair to yourself when you expect something from someone which that person is unwilling and/or incapable to deliver.

Behind all the heart talk and feelings and emotions, the fact that holds it all together is that no one but you yourself are responsible for your joy and sorrow.

No one- absolutely no one can really make you happy or sad. Only you can.